My husband and I are responsible homeowners in New Jersey, near Philadelphia.  I have been offered a wonderful job opportunity in Bethesda, MD, but have no desire to sell our home.  I will be the Director of an Assisted Living property, but do not want to pay the very expensive rent for an apartment, and really do not desire a stranger for a roommate at this juncture of my life.  I am in my mid-40s, and have a master's degree in public health.  My desire is to have my husband stay with me as much as he can (he is a composer and can mostly work from home), however, he will be spending quite a bit of time at our NJ home.  We do not have children, so that is not a factor.  All in all, I/we are very good-natured, responsible, "normal" people, just trying to alleviate a major expense.  I/we would take care of your home as if it were ours (we take excellent care of ours!). Thank you very much, Amy